Stephanie Perkins’ Top Ten Tips For Visiting Paris - Hôtel des Métallos

The Top Ten Things You Should Know About France Before Visiting

1 – Memorize polite phrases. The French are more willing to help when you extend the courtesy of TRYING to speak their language. Learn the basic polite words: please, thank you, hello, goodbye. Memorize the magic phrase “Je voudrais,” which means, “I would like,” which can be used in restaurants, stores, train stations, anywhere! (And then don’t forget to add the “s’il vous plaît” and “merci!”)

 2 – Dress nicely. It’s true. The French dress better than us. This doesn’t mean that you need to buy a new wardrobe, but it does mean that you should treat your host country with respect. Ease off the T-shirts and shorts. Ditch the white athletic sneakers.

3 – Take your time. French culture calls for savoring life, especially food! Anticipate your meals to take longer. MUCH longer. There’s a common misconception that Parisian waiters are rude, but it’s polite for servers to be leisurely—they’re giving you time to enjoy your meal!—and it’s actually considered rude for them to hover over your table.

4 – Don’t smile. It’s often shocking for Americans to learn, but in France, it’s seen as silly (and, frankly, kind of dumb) to walk around with a smile on your face or to smile at someone you’ve never met before. Save your smile until it’s earned, and you’ll earn the respect of the recipient.

5 – Lower your voice. The good news: France doesn’t think America is the loudest country. (That honor goes to Italy.) The bad news: We’re still way too loud! Try not to be overheard by anyone but to whom you are speaking with.

6 – Tipping. You never have to tip in cafés/restaurants, because the tax and tip are included in your bill. This often makes Americans feel guilty, so if your service is good, you can leave an extra Euro or two on the table. But it’s not necessary.

7 – Restrooms. “Les toilettes” are usually located below cafés/restaurants, so look for the telltale set of descending stairs.

8 – Use the métro. It’s easy, safe, and affordable, and it’ll take you anywhere. Yes, the trains will be crowded during rush hour. Yes, watch out for pickpockets. But in a reasonable, non-freaked out way!

9 – Skip the top of the Eiffel Tower. Unless you have your heart set on it, don’t bother. You’ll waste valuable hours for a view that you can find in dozens of other locations across the city.

And finally . . .

10 – Slow down. Stroll gardens, cemeteries, and smaller museums. Take frequent breaks inside boulangeries (bakeries) and patisseries (dessert shops). Observe your surrounding architecture. Beauty and history are EVERYWHERE.

- Stephanie Perkins

If you need help on how to use Metros and Buses, check our blog for tips.